Relationship Fantasies About Breakups Can Actually Strengthen Partnerships, Slovak Psychologist Says

Slovak psychologist Norbert Uhnák argues that thinking about ending a relationship should not be feared, as such thoughts can actually help strengthen romantic partnerships. According to Uhnák, even humor and irony between partners can become reasons for breakups when they cross boundaries. He notes that many couples are surprised by how their relationships improve once they stop verbally hurting each other and engaging in mutual put-downs. The psychologist emphasizes that partners need to understand they should treat each other differently than they would treat drinking buddies or high school classmates, suggesting that this realization can open new horizons in relationships.